2009/05/13

【聯強EMBA】要理解才去做,但無法理解也要去做‏

【聯強EMBA】要理解才去做,但無法理解也要去做
作者:杜書伍 (聯強國際集團總裁兼執行長)


  我們經常提倡:做事之前要充分理解事物的精神、內涵,執行時才會做的又快又好,且能夠真正有所體悟、學習。這是針對順從性高、不喜歡動腦筋、或習慣於不假思索「拿來就做」的人,提醒其切莫陷入不動腦筋的習性,而不自知。

然而我們也發現,習慣「要理解才去做」的人,有時也會陷入另一種型態的僵化:「只做理解的事情」。這類人非常堅持「要理解才去做」的原則,甚至當他「無法理解」時,還會非常理直氣壯的要求對方必須說服他,否則就沒辦法做。其邏輯乍聽之下不無道理,實則令人哭笑不得。

實務經驗告訴我們,理解能力與個人閱歷的多寡,及悟性的高低有關。年輕、資淺者閱歷有限,對於未曾經歷的新事物,本來就未必能很快了解、認知;而即便是資深人員,其閱歷亦有其偏向。更何況世界之大,無奇不有,無人能百分之百了然萬事萬物的道理。所以「不聽老人言,吃虧在眼前」這句俗語,並不是陳腔濫調;它其實指出了任一人視界必有侷限的自然律,以及前輩智慧的價值。

所以,看待無法理解事物的正確觀念,應是先接受進來,透過「做中學」,一邊做一邊理解。當旁人提點要去做某件事、或該去注意某件事時,應盡力去理解其說明;假使未能通透理解,也應該先「照著去做」,一面做一面去體悟其道理,一面體悟再一面比對、提問。只要用心,必能在實做的過程中,悟透大部分的道理。否則,因為大部分的事物都未經歷過,豈不是好多事情都不能做、不必做;如此一來,個人將無法擴增歷練範疇,組織的政策也就無法推動。

更何況,以我閱人的經驗,多數將「要理解才去做」當作排拒事物理由的人,骨子裡他是不認同,他是反對。因為,當被問到哪裡不理解時,他們往往說不上來,禁不起旁人一再催促、追問,只好以此為藉口,含糊帶過。究其根源,他們是反射性的排斥他不認同的事物,也就是犯了「本能叛逆」的毛病而不自知。

否則,真正掌握「要理解才去做」真諦者,對於無法理解的事物,他仍會嘗試去「理解」、「認知」、「深度理解」(請參考「善性循環的啟動圖」)。確實思考後,他必能發現有些地方是不對的,是不可行的,是有瑕疵的;而能提出為何不對、不可行、或有瑕疵的理由,並請求主管或旁人解惑。絕對不會單以「不理解」這個說法,簡單回應。

因此,大家應該認知到,廣義的「要理解才去做」,應是「要理解才去做,但無法理解也要去做」;更重要的是,個人切莫以「要理解才能做」來掩飾自己的「本能叛逆」的習性。而主管也應能洞悉這類以此為藉口者的人格特質,而能真正導正部屬的習性,有效輔導改正。 (Y60831)

(本文取材自「聯強EMBA」,為聯強國際集團內部管理課程主題)

2009/05/12

Motivation!

最近感到生活失去了 動力

什麼都不想想, 什麼也不想做, 想發呆就好!

對未來的路充滿的茫然與徬徨

什麼是適合我的~
什麼是我想要的~
什麼是我能做的~

每回想著想著就會想到自己的許多缺點:

沒自信
沒主見
沒勇氣
沒目標
沒才華
沒天分

我想缺乏自信是我最大的敗筆


如果能對自己多點自信

今天的我應該不會只是現在這樣子吧

?自信該從哪去建立?去培養?去尋找?

~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~

與zoe在msn的對話:

J: 我是不是比較沒有主見
Z: 我覺得不是沒主見
J: 不然是?
Z: 是大部分時候覺得都沒差, 所以不會特別提出自己的意見
Z: 但是其實是有自己的主見的
J: 是這樣子嗎 XD
Z: 感覺最近一直在發現自己的缺點
Z: 但是, 如果你覺得別人的想法跟你的有分別, 或影響到妳, 還是會提出自己的意見的

我真的只是這樣子而已嗎? 當時心中的疑問!

每每跟大家聊天or看著大家的blog/plurk
總覺得大家對於自己都是有打算有計畫

反過來看看自己
除了會念書會考試, 還會什麼嗎
當有人問我 "你的休閒興趣是什麼"
往往都是答不出來

其實 有很多想學的東西
只是自己往往找藉口說沒空/太忙

等什麼什麼之後再來開始學

這樣的藉口只是無限循環下去啊

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現在的我

應該是很努力趕paper 趕實驗 趕碩論

可是

我就是什麼也不想做

怎麼辦才好


什麼才是生活的重心!

什麼才是可以驅動我的動力!



(ps: 覺得自己最近想的文章都好down喔)

2009/04/23

Time is approaching~

Two years have almost gone by.
The nerve and pressure of getting the thesis done on time is finally getting onto me.

Look back to the past two years~

Life in graduate school;
I wish to express it as interesting or exciting, but I found it to be more frustrating and boring.

It's either lab or home, not much other choices.
Going to Taipei once couple of months is the chance for me to get out of this routine life style.

Is it just me or grad. school life, I wonder!


By reading back the blogs I wrote before I have came back to Taiwan,
I found myself or my writing to be rather more interesting or u could use the word "diverse".

Was it the right choice to go for grad. school?
I don't think this is the right question I should be asking myself right now.

But I would say that I am really looking forward to the life after graduation,
even though I am not sure where I will be and what I would be working,
One thing I know for certain is that I am not wishing much to stay at home anymore.

When you are a student, you always wish to get out of school and work.
When you once start working, you could wish to be back at student life again.
It's just the cycle of life.
Since I am still a student at this moment, I really think it's time for me to get out of current life.

2009/02/20

LONG LONG time no see~~

I haven't been checking back into this blog site every since moved to the new one.
But due to some personal issues that I have decided to temperatory turn-off the new one as well.
Since then, I have become extremely lazy of writing blogs......
Really really apologized for those still checking on my blog.


Why I am back here again?!

Good question~

Just that it has past mid-night here at Taiwan, but I am still working on my PPT presentation for the coming Saturday.
And I decided to google search on my name a bit....

The GOOGLE GOD~ this is how I found my way back into this blog~

Anyway,

Just saying HI HI Hi to those who still caring and checking on me~

I am doing ok over here in grad. school, hopefully to be able to graduate this Aug.

I will come back and write things occasionally.


love you all~~

2008/05/02

NEW BLOG ADDRESS

For those who have been checking on my blog~~

sorry to announce this news this late~

~~ My BLOG HAS BEEN MOVED ~~

to a new home since day one of 2008!


You all know that how lazy I can be for blogging~

therefore, I didn't think it was necessary to post the new link.


ANYWAY, here comes my new blog address:

http://www.wretch.cc/blog/bluepanta


enjoy~~ cccc ^^

2008/01/04

Happy New Year 2008

well....i have been really lazy lately...

so....haven't post for over 1 month already...

sorry for the ones have been checking out my blog!!


Even though the weather has been quite cold recently at Taiwan
(I am sure it should be cold as well in Canada or America or England!)

Here to give everyone a warmly hug and wish

Wishing everyone a

HAPPY NEW YEAR 2008!!

have a wonderful upcoming year! ^O^


by lazy Judy XD

2007/11/14

sometimes~~

being independant is one good thing.
but sometimes...

I wish i could be more girly..
I would like be taking cared...

sometimes...

I wish I could just like others...

sometimes~~

2007/10/16

7 years have passed by

Time flys ~~~

Even thought it has been 7 years already, I still remember it so clearly.
Not sure if I am ready to tell the whole world what I have been through.
But sure that I am strong enough to face the fact today.

Remember it was discovered while I was studying in the commen area of Shattuck.
But I really didn't pay much attention at that time.
Until, it got worse....................

Remember flying back and forth between U.S. and Taiwan.
Remember my dad joking that I have to prepare for the worth situation.
After all, it did came true with my dad's joke.

Remember how I cried through every day and night.
Remember how paintfull it was to go to school everyday.
Remember the faces poeplo looked at me weirdly.

Every memories come so clearly even now.
I don't know how I could been through all these, but I am glad I did.
I didn't let my illness to pull me down.

I was just reading through some notes on web posted by those people who are same as me.
Some of them have not even recovered for their whole life, 10, 20 years, even 30.
I am very thankful for how lucky I can be.

Not that I don't cry anymore when ever I think of it.
But I am really glad that I could do much more things than before.
I can run, I can swim, I can ride the roller coaster with no worry.

Maybe I am still not fully recover yet, but I am sure I will be someday.

Thanks for those who cares for me. ^^

Just a little memory note for myself.
When I am ready to tell the whole world, maybe I will write a little story of myself.
maybe, maybe~~~

2007/10/07

joke of the day!!

前幾天啊 因為媽媽的電腦有問題
好像中毒了 可是用防毒軟體又找不到病毒在哪裡
只好帶電腦去給買電腦的人看

維修人員看了一下
說最好的方式還是重灌
還好媽媽的電腦裡面沒什麼資料
就請他幫我門弄一下

我就在那邊跟媽媽說:

我: 明明沒什麼再用電腦, 居然還會中毒
媽媽: 我又不知道為什麼會中毒
我: 你可能上網看一些東西就弄到病毒啦
媽媽: 沒有啊, 我電腦買到在都還上網啊!!
我: @@??
媽媽: 我沒有上網, 只有看e-mail而已啊!!!
我:....... @@!!!
我:.......看e-mail就是上網啊!!!

完全被媽媽打敗了!!!

2007/09/04

This is LIFE!

學多懂多,

懂多煩多,

煩多想多,

想多做多,

做多付多,

付多拿多,

拿多花多,

花多吃多,

吃多病多,

病多-日子不多,

最好還是別管那麼多,

開心多多!

2007/07/26

Increasing Oil Price!!

As the oil price increases rapidly week after week.
I start concerning how to safe some buck for gas!!

So... here is the conversation, as my parents and me were eatting dinner and watching the news!
and it's Tuesday night!!

TV news: the oil price will increase again this Tue midnight by NT$0.1/liter.

me: oh oh..i forgot to get some gas today before I came back home.
me: i should go after dinner, even thought might have to line up.
dad: how many liter do u get each time??!!
me: hmm... about 2-3 liters ba, i think!
mom: ....... ........ then..u would only save 0.2-0.3 dollers.
mom: but you have to spend ~0.5 dollers to drive to the gas station!!

me: .......oh, hehehehe (whtat an idiot i am!! XD)

2007/06/25

Kitaro

Sis decided to go shopping at Taichung on Sunday, therefore we drived all the way from HsinChu to Taichung.
Since we were going to Taichung, we might just as well had our lunch there.

We found a restaurant called "Kitaro 樹太老" in a Taichung restaurant booklet.

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The outside of the restaurant...

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The inside of the restaurant...
There are approx. 44 seats in total, not a big restaurant but seems quite popurlar.

We waited for about half an hour before we could get a seat, and it was 2PM already...
Even while we were eatting, there were people kept coming to the restaurant.

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Here are the faces of sis and 東東 looked tiring from waiting. @@ It was also a super hot day!!!

Oh forgot to mention, this is a japanese restaurant mainly with japanese 定食!
We all ordered 炸豬排定食 but with different flavors.

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Here is mine 咖哩炸豬排定食

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sister's 味增炸豬排定食

Basically they all looks same, except with different souse.
And and, the 小菜, 高麗菜, 白飯, and miso soup are all you can eat. ^O^ (well, except the meat of course... hahaha)

The fried pork has really crasp skin, tasted quite nice.
Personally, I think the miso flavor is better than the curry one.
The curry flavor tasted really thick and nice.
But the miso one tasted more than just normal miso flavor, but also with some sweet taste.
Don't know how to explain, but I would recommend the miso one personally. ^O^

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Here is sis trying to finish up all the rice by mixing the miso soup into the rice bowl.

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東東 tried to stop sis from over-eatting, and..... hahahaha

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They also provided dessert after meal with choices of 紅豆和果子 or ice cream.
We all choosed ice cream....it's vanilla chocolate chip flavor.

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We also used the coupons from the booklet to save NT$60... ^^

Of course we went shopping afterward.....ccc

I bought a pair of high-hill shoes and a bag.....ccc spent money again XD!!

2007/03/05

Lantern Festival

昨天元宵節 當然也要應景的吃一下湯圓摟
只可惜沒機會去看花燈

大熱天的...還是點了個熱的花生湯圓來吃
可惜....我以為是湯圓裡面包花生
結果....是白湯圓+花生 而已 .... 小小失望 ><

邊吃湯圓邊看老板的女兒在那走來走去不想吃飯
所以好像是阿嬤吧...餵她吃了幾顆湯圓
不過啊...我湯圓吃到一半
聽到小女孩很可愛的聲音說 "我不要吃芋圓啦" (用台語喔)
說了好幾次可是爸爸太忙了都沒空理她
湯圓就這樣含在小女孩嘴裏....
就在我快要吃完我的湯圓時候,
突然聽到老闆說 "不要吃, 吞下去就好了"

XD.......我在旁邊笑翻了
原來老闆也是很可愛的!!!

2007/02/27

HaPpY cHiNeSe NeW yEar

新年快樂 ~~
又是新的一年的開始
每天要開開心心 快快樂樂的喔 !! ^O^

雖然沒有紅包 不過還是請大家吃年糕摟!!

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ps: 我自己做的喔 哇哈哈哈哈哈~~~

2007/02/03

Australia Trip - Day 1 (Jan. 19, 2007)

Sorry for not updating my blog for such a long long time~~ :P
as you all know, I am still as lazy as usual...
BUT, BUT.... finally here comes some photos from my Aus. trip


It's the first day of Aus. Trip and it's a family trip to visit my little bro who is at Aus. right now
We flighted off from Tao-Yuan International Airport to Singapore Airport at 1:40PM
This was the first time I took Singapore Airline.
The seats are different from those at China Airline
It feels wider in space and even has personal TV and and..TONS of movies channels
There were like 60-70 channels to choose from.....
so........so........i barely slept during the flight...haha...
Ho Ho, and...the desire was ICE CREAM, one of them was Häagen-Dazs (chocolate flavor)

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We arrived Singapore Airport around 6:00PM the same day
The airport is not all that big but pretty at lease
They have the gardens with tree, flower, and pond inside the terminal building
The tree and flowers are REAL..... looks quite pretty and relaxing

Also, i found that there is a tiny theory & bar inside the airport.... interesting right!!!
Since we had 3 hrs time before next flight, we started looking for the VIP lounge.

The food in VIP lounge were not good, but at lease I took a quick shower and used the internet before heading to Australia. ^^

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Oh, and YES, this airport is the same one as the 王又曾 went to at Singapore. :P

2006/11/06

pig or no pig

人=吃飯+睡覺+上班+玩

人=吃飯+睡覺+上班+玩
豬=吃飯+睡覺
代入: 人=豬+上班+玩
移項: 人-玩=豬+上班
結論: 不懂玩的人=會上班的豬

男人=吃飯+睡覺+掙錢
豬=吃飯+睡覺
代入: 男人=豬+掙錢
移項: 豬=男人-掙錢
所以男人不掙錢就等於豬

女人=吃飯+睡覺+花錢
豬=吃飯+睡覺
代入: 女人=豬+花錢
移項: 女人-花錢=豬
結論: 不花錢的女人都是豬

綜上:
男人為了讓女人不變成豬而掙錢!
女人為了讓男人不變成豬而花錢!
男人+女人=兩頭豬

總結:
為了不讓我自己變成豬,只好努力花錢啦
哈哈哈~~~

2006/10/30

Teddy

謝謝小崧的surprise
that was something really surprised me!!

一整天都沒打給我
連個生日快樂都沒有
特別等到晚上12點才打電話給你
居然都不理我 還在外面混
我當然就悶悶的去睡覺啦

凌晨2點多, 電話響了.....鈴 鈴 鈴~~~
有個大笨蛋說" 對不起 我遲到了"...

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這就是凌晨兩點多 出現在我門口的東東
一隻超級大熊熊 加上 一個看起來很喘的小崧
呵~~~

現在每天只要抱著teddy就會睡著
不管是幾點....
抱一下下就會想睡覺了
這樣以後就不用怕會失眠摟 ccc

真的好可愛好可愛, 謝謝小崧給我的生日禮物

2006/08/14

二樓 vs 三樓之羽球比賽

某一天某時候 公司兩個無聊人
突然間興起了來場羽球大戰
就這樣的 二樓跟三樓的戰爭一觸即發
副總與協理間的e-mail口水戰也開始流傳在每個人的信箱

各憑本事招募好手
既然我每天在三樓招搖撞騙
當然應為三樓效點力啦

時間一天一天逼近
比賽表也終於公佈
男單 x 2
女單
男雙 x 2
女雙
混雙
總共七場比賽定勝負

終於終於比賽於今天晚上準8:00pm開打了
經過一番鬥陣 一番廝殺
嘿嘿嘿嘿.....當然還有一旁賣力的啦啦隊加油

YA 三樓以四勝三敗 險勝二樓
當然當然 我賣力的女雙也為我門三樓贏的一勝

雖然我忘了比賽勝利的獎品是什麼 orz
不過.....嘿嘿嘿....至少贏了啦啦啦
聽說去年的籃球比賽 三樓慘敗二樓
今天終於板回了三樓的面子

可惜少了些照片
就此表達我心中的愉悅啦 ccccc

不過...在我比賽結束後...被小阿諾笑了一下
說我跟winnie是我門三樓的"笑"
沒辦法 誰叫我手癢....出界的球也要打 還有揮棒落空的 orz
沒關係沒關係 至少有贏就好ㄇㄟ...ccccc